One thing all humans have in common is that they will enter the world and leave the world in the same way — birth and death. In our society, speaking about death has almost become taboo; yet, it is something that we will all face one day. Advance health care planning conversations are some of the most difficult conversations to have initially, but your family and friends will benefit later in the decision-making process when end-of-life decisions have to be made.
Conversations about advance care planning and end-of-life desires are best to have when someone is healthy. However, that’s usually when people feel less urgency and put it off. When people are sick, advance care planning is much harder to talk about as the reality of the end of life becomes more apparent. Many people perceive that if they talk about end of life, it will happen sooner. The reality is that whether you are healthy or sick, young or old, it is never too early to talk about advance care planning and end-of-life issues. None of us know how today will end, as our lives can change quickly.
Not only is it important for others to know your wishes, but it also is important for you to know the wishes of your family and friends. Advance care planning conversations benefit everyone. Documenting your wishes is just as important as having conversations. Please see Create Your Advance Directive for more information.